A Letter from Van, Halle's Partner
I think aging is so beautiful; and I always have. The maturity of the women in my life is a source of strength. The way women see the world and the way they describe the world they see — with such detail, humor, and rawness — has always made sense to me, and therefore, has always been reassuring. And as a man, it gives me the confidence to be all of what I am — to compliment the fullness of womanhood.
If someone important to me is struggling, there is no way I would not want to know — and no way I would not want to help them find a remedy. We have to talk to the women in our lives. To hear them open up about pains and ills of which we know nothing about — and cannot fix with our hands. We have to lead with love, curiosity, and patience... instead of bravado and know-how. I think the wildest future I can imagine is one in which men learn how to support women, emotionally.
For these reasons, I would implore men to gift the women in their lives a Respin; a place where women and men can learn about women's health. Where the societal shift that we all feel coming can fulfill its promise.
— Van
Menopause doesn’t just impact women — it impacts relationships, families, and the people who love them. As partners, so many of us were never taught what this transition really means, or how to help.
Supporting partners in menopause
This 5-part series is designed for partners who want to show up with more understanding, empathy, and support. From mood shifts to intimacy changes to what to actually say when she’s struggling, these guides offer a starting place for connection — not perfection.
